When the time comes; i will be a dad of my child; a husband of my wife; and a guy who act like those majority.
But i am still me. A homo.
The difference is; I will still claim myself as a homo, but i will not act/behave like those homos.
Sound sucks right? But deciding sexual orientation is not about tick A to be a heterosexual or tick B to be a homosexual; it is complicated. Same like big fat girls. they dont want to be born as obese people, but they were born in that big structure. That is who they are.
You! Do you really like your curly hair? Do you choose to have that noodle-like curly? You might be dreaming of having a straight hair with a pan asian-look right? But, do you have a choice to be someone else? Well, if you curse me for my unnatural nature; you should blame your dad for his genetically curly hair which inherits to you. Hahaha. Do you have a choice either to be a sperm of Robert Pattinson or Eddie Murphy? Let me ask you again. Do you have a choice? Do you choose to be you? Do you???
So, when people questioning you about your sexual orientation, just say it. Coz you didn't choose, but you were born that way.
*kindly ignore my grammatically error.